Let go

Today my 2year baby taught me about "letting go".
As a mother at home I have always been around my child, always. So whatever is done for her I do for her. I make her sleep, eat , cook  for her and the list goes on.  So eventually it is her mom who is always nagging behind her to eat the nutritious food and not chocolate, to sleep on time, to not scribble on the wall....etc etc :( . And her darling dad comes at night plays with her without fussing around and both of them are happy. 

Things have been like this and nobody was complaining. But tonight like any other night my daughter dint want to sleep even after switching off lights and singing some lullabies...my daughter said "my mom does not love me"!! I felt as if :- Oh my whole world crumbled :(  and on the top of it I asked "whom you want to sleep with then" , she conveniently said "DAD"... like another bullet in the heart. I literally had to stop myself from crying as my husband could not stop smiling.

So I have realised I have to let go certain things and not run after her all the time. I can't take her love for granted as she will eventually be busy in various things and probably we will not be spending so much time together. So I changed myself instead of her and I am trying to be a happy mom n a less nagging mom.

And I also thanked my mom today  for being there and taking good care of me when I was little. Had not understood the value of my mom until I became one.

Happy mommying !!

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